Fathers Raising Children – Part 3 of 3
How do dads think they’re doing? Most – whether they live at home or not – feel there’s leeway for improvement. Just 44 percent of fathers living with their kids felt they were doing a “very good job,” while only 21 percent of non-coresidential dads felt the same. Dr Victor Fornari, headman of the division of child and adolescent psychiatry at the North Shore-LIJ Health System in New Hyde Park, NY, weighed in on the study’s findings.
So “The recognition that so many youngsters are being raised with minimal access to their fathers is sad. We have to be mindful of the differences fathers can make in the life of a child. It seems that not being there is a sense of distress and frustration for the fathers. But they trouble to know that the quality of parenting matters whether you live there or not.
What’s critically important if you don’t live with your children, however, is that you find a way to get along with the other parent. Parents working together – even if they’re not a twosome – provide a balance. You need to work effectively together for your children. Try to be as involved as possible with your kids and work collaboratively with their mom to minimize conflicts and put through in the best interest of your kids.
Fathers do matter. You can have a profound impact on your child’s life, even if you’re not living with them. If you are living with them, be sure that you’re actively engaged. Just being hand over isn’t enough more info. Make sure you have dinner with your kids. I understand people have busy schedules, but if you don’t have time for dinner together most nights, when do you have time to interact?”
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